August 28, 2009
This Week in the News (August 28, 2009)
RCMP warn of suspect in sexual assault
Gold River man gets three years in jail for taking nude photographs of child
Tippett testifies he was carjacked
Kidnapping 11-year-old ‘turned my life around’: California rapist
Police make arrest in Oshawa sex assault
Ex-policeman faces more sex charges
Doctor facing sex charges out on bail
BC man who sexually assaulted hitchhiker declared dangerous offender
N.L. police investigate sex assault after woman approached by man at park
Tennis instructor charged with sexual assault
Air Cadet volunteer facing sex assault charges
Bail hearing set in sex charge
RNC investigating sexual assault
Ottawa woman testifies of alleged abduction horror
Firefighter charged with sex attack
Brutal sexual assault remains unsolved (warning: has photo of scene from Crime Stoppers re-enactment)
Toronto police urge public for help to ID six sexual assault and robbery suspects
Six Suspects At Large After Sexual Assault In Liberty Village
RCMP still on lookout for escaped prisoner
Yukon Mounties’ sexual assault trial set for March 2010
Brothers to be sentenced for sexual offences Nov. 10
Child rapist sentenced to seven years
Suspects sought in Steinbach sexual assault
Online sex assaults of toddler son net jail time for dad
OPP deal with alleged sexual assault
Questions about looks lead to sex assault retrial
Defence denied access to alleged sexual assault victim’s medical records
High risk offender back on Calgary streets
Jailed Ont. priest dismissed by Roman Catholic Church
Chief on hand for ex-cop’s sentence
Judge finds girls’ testimony unreliable
August 25, 2009
The Invisibility of Jasmine Fiore
Jasmine Fiore’s death (allegedly) at the hands of her husband, Ryan Jenkins, has been one of the top news stories for days. Or has it? Most media reports have focussed not on Fiore herself, but on Jenkins, the man who appears to have killed her. We know little about her other than her career as a swimsuit model, her “Las Vegas lifestyle” and the fact that she had breast implants—revealed because that’s how police identified her body. However, we know all about Jenkins: where he went to high school, what he did in college, his reality TV show appearance, and his history of violence against women (although that last one doesn’t show up in most stories).
Jenkins has become the focus, even though Fiore is the victim, her body mutilated so badly that she had to be identified using the serial numbers on her breast implants. That’s become a joke for some, a joke that forgets what it means when police say that her fingers and teeth were destroyed, that her body fit into a suitcase. Instead, those implants are one more sensational detail that dehumanizes Fiore, turning her into the object on which Jenkins enacted his hate.
When it comes to Jenkins, stories are full of details about his life. They’re also full of people denying that he could ever hurt anyone. His father, architect Dan Jenkins, stated, “The boy we knew was not capable of anything remotely close to this act. You talk to everyone here who knew him before he went down there and they’ll talk about a wonderful young man, a thoughtful man.” Friends commenting on the Calgary Herald’s website describe him as happy, goofy, a good man, not someone who would kill another person. In one story, Herald reporter Robert Remington claims that “Around the world, reality TV has caused humiliated contestants to either kill others or kill or injure themselves.”
But Jenkin’s past shows a different pattern. Well before he moved to California and appeared on Megan Wants a Millionaire (his first reality TV appearance), Jenkins was violent towards women in his life. In 2007, Jenkins pled guilty to assaulting a girlfriend and served 15 months probation as well as being required to participate in a domestic violence counseling and anger management program. Ex-girlfriends have said that he was sexually controlling, becoming angry when he could not get what he wanted, as well as being physically violent.
In June 2009, Jenkins was charged with hitting Jasmine Fiore at a Las Vegas hotel. He was scheduled to appear in court this December. It’s unclear whether the production company, 51 Minds (which made both shows) knew about this charge, but Jenkins competed on I Love Money 3 (which was due to air later this year).
One questions how a man with a history of violence against women ends up as a contestant on a reality dating show. 51 Minds states that they screen their participants, using a company called Collective Intelligence for Canadian competitors. That company claims a court clerk’s error led to Jenkins’ history slipping through their screening. However, reality shows have had a history of missing out on violent histories. Who Wants to Marry a Multi-Millionaire? featured Rick Rockwell, who was later revealed to have a restraining order against him. Big Brother contestant Justin Sebik had an assault conviction well before he held a knife to fellow contestant Krista Stegall’s throat.
The question is not so much “why do reality show contestants do such violent things?” as “why are reality show producers not requiring criminal records checks or vigorously screening their contestants?” Violent participants seem to have a history of criminal behaviour well before they ever make it into casting, let alone onto the screen. The race for ratings and dollars seems to supersede concerns over participants’ safety. While blaming reality TV for participants’ violence ignores those participants’ histories, there is a need for production companies to make sure that violent offenders aren’t getting a starring role on their shows.
While news reports place blame for Jenkins’ actions on reality television and his friends and family deny his violent past, media coverage has also minimized the violence in Fiore and Jenkins’ relationship and sensationalized Fiore’s life. Headlines call their relationship “rocky” or “volatile” when the reality is that things were flat-out abusive. There are reports of physical abuse, screaming arguments, and controlling behaviours. Fiore left the relationship and applied to have their marriage annulled over “trust and boundary issues” (including infidelity, according to her mother) but the couple got back together later. Lisa Lepore, her mother, says she was a young woman in love.
Most reports show Fiore as nothing more than a swimsuit model who had worked for Playboy and loved to party. Photos of her accompany every article. Her looks and lifestyle are tacitly blamed for what happened to her—the wild, sexy girl who drinks and parties and dates dangerous men. Few stories talk about her financial savvy (she opened a retirement account at age 16 and had worked in banking and real estate) or her dream of opening a gym and selling her own body-care and clothing line.
In one rare story that talks about Fiore’s life, her mother describes her: “She was kind-hearted, she was thoughtful, she was adventurous, she was strong. She went out of her way to look after her friends and her family. She was a delight. … She was a shining light. She just had this exuberance and this vibrancy around her. She was a very powerful and beautiful woman.”
But most people don’t know about that girl. They just know about the “tragedy” of Ryan Jenkins. Abusers aren’t tragic. The tragedy here is that a young woman is dead, and those dreams she had will never be fulfilled.
Strip away the glamour, the Hollywood connection and Vegas decadence, and the story becomes one that’s all too common. A man gets into a relationship with a woman, moving far too fast (one major sign of an abuser). She tries to leave, is drawn back in. He controls her, manipulates her. Eventually, he becomes enraged and kills her. Every day, men like Jenkins abuse and even murder women, but most of the time, nobody notices. Men’s violence against women becomes invisible, and the women who are victims of that violence vanish, much as Jasmine Fiore has in the story of her own death.
Bridget Stirling, SACE Public Educator
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Some of the news articles used in preparing this post:
http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-model-murder22-2009aug22,0,7935682.story
http://www.calgaryherald.com/news/guilty+crazy/1926784/story.html
http://www.calgaryherald.com/news/Ryan+Jenkins+reality+culture/1928295/story.html
http://www.cbc.ca/arts/media/story/2009/08/22/jenkins-killing-realitytv-casting.html
http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/Story?id=8397405&page=1
August 21, 2009
This week in the News
‘Sex addict’ threw tantrums, court told
New twist in Roethlisberger suit
Veteran officer charged with incest, sex assault
Man accused in abduction expected to plead guilty
Toronto man charged with sexual assault on girl, 14
Pub owner avoids jail time for sex assault
Can’t remember night of assault, Ont. girl testifies
Girl, 12, found after high speed chase, court hears
Paramedical examiner charged with sex assault
Sex assault charge follows subway attack
Assault traumatized girl, 13, mother says
Man charged with 60 sex offences against boys
man charged with sexual assault after meeting girl on vampire website
Man pleads guilty to sexual assault
Copperfield denies sexual assault
Rally planned in support of girl victimized in sexual assault near …
Harper Woods man held in sexual assault case
August 17, 2009
Winnipeg Police Service News Release
On August 12, 2009, the Winnipeg Police Service released additional information on the parental abduction of Abby and Dominic Maryk that occurred in August 2008.
As detectives believe that the children are no longer in Winnipeg and may have been taken out of the country, investigators recognized a need to have the abduction highlighted globally.
In keeping with current internet trends, the Winnipeg Police Service has made the decision to use a popular video sharing website to assist with the investigation. A video portraying children’s mother and her message to the suspects regarding the safe return of the children has been published.
The publication of this video is the first time that the Winnipeg Police Service has gone beyond the regular channels of information distribution in an attempt to appeal to the public for assistance.
Investigators are confident that the publication of the video will lead to information being shared with police that will lead to the safe return of the children.
Anyone with information regarding the children’s whereabouts may contact authorities by contacting the Winnipeg Police Service Missing Persons Unit at 986-6250, the non-emergency line at 986-6222 or CrimeStoppers at 786-TIPS (8477). Information can also be provided to Child Find at 1-800-532-9135.
August 14, 2009
Girls Gone Wild?
Some months ago, CBC’s The National aired a segment called, “Girls Gone Wild.” The feature explores the dangers associated with the surge of binge-drinking amongst college-aged women. It features 3 women talking about how much they drink on a typical night out and interviews “experts,” such as bartenders and a women who has conducted research on drug-facilitated sexual assault, to reveal how women are putting themselves in a “risky situation” by drinking heavily.
The segment is nothing that’s new to us at SACE, nor is it anything that’s shocking. Unfortunately, victim-blaming programs such as this, even from the most well-intentioned reporters and researchers, is pretty common.
When I talk about why this irritates with me with friends and family, they don’t seem to get it. “But, don’t you think it’s good that they’re talking about this kind of stuff? Don’t you think it’s important to talk about how dangerous it is for women to drink so much?”
What irks me is who is portrayed as responsible for sexual assault. In “Girls Gone Wild,” the message is that women need to protect themselves from assault; women need to drink less; women need to watch themselves; women need to control their own behaviour. What I would like to see is someone telling perpetrators to stop sexually assaulting other people. Sexual assault doesn’t happen because of what a woman wears, or how much she drinks, or whether or not she’s in a group with other people; it happens because an offender decides to sexually assault her.
Arguing that women need to curtail their drinking to avoid being assaulted is not only ridiculous for its victim-blaming implications, but because of how normalized drinking is in North American college culture. I remember being in university and it was not only normal to drink, but we were encouraged to drink. The people who chose to not participate in alcohol-related activities in residence, for example, were not only mocked but excluded from most social activities. If drug facilitated sexual assault is something that people are concerned about, why not encourage a change in the culture that encourages people to drink when they’re not comfortable with it?
Or! Better yet! Why not encourage people to NOT sexually assault each other?! What a novel concept! It’d be really great if once, just once, an expose such as this didn’t focus on what survivors were doing wrong, but focused instead on what offenders are doing. For example, one of last week’s articles states, “the woman admitted she had drunk between 10 and 12 pints of beer.” SO WHAT? The only way that is relevant is in proving that what happened was an assault. It’s written in our criminal code that consent cannot be given when one is incapacitated. This means that the sentence shouldn’t read, “the victim admitted…” but instead, “the offender admitted that the victim had 10-12 pints before the assault.” This is the offender’s responsibility, not the victim’s.
‘Cause let me tell you something: sexual assault doesn’t happen because of what the survivor drank, wore, did, or didn’t do; it happens because an offender chooses to sexually assault someone. Drinking is not the motivating factor. The offender offending is.
This Week In the News (August 14, 2009)
Children’s hospital doctor charged with sex assault (Edmonton)
Police hunting sex-attack suspect (Edmonton)
Shocking kiss costs electrician $750 (Edmonton)
Man faces numerous charges for sexual assault (Edmonton)
Sole black man in police lineup acquitted of assault (Edmonton)
Edmonton police arrest sex-assault suspect (Edmonton)
Woman attacked after accepting ride (Edmonton)
Guilty plea expected in Alberta teen kidnapping
Alberta woman assaulted after anwering online ad (Calgary)
Doctor charged with sex assault misses court, warrant issued (Manitoba)
Sex assault suspect sought by Whitehorse RCMP
RCMP release sketch of sexual assault suspect (Saskatchewan)
Vancouver cop facing sex assault, incest charges
Surrey man charged with sex assault on 12-year-old Coquitlam girl
Red Deer man accused of assaulting teen, posing as police officer …
Whitehorse RCMP warn of sex offender’s release
Man charged with sexual assault after woman groped on SkyTrain
12 years for child rapist Man’s conduct described as abhorrent, depraved (Australia)
Sexual assualt victim will not testify; charges dropped (California)
Carleton University, sex assault victim settle lawsuit
Man charged with sexual assault of 12-year-old Coquitlam girl
Accused Sexting Teacher Had Prior Suspension (Conneticut)
RIGHTS-AFRICA: Elusive Justice for Victims of Gender-Based Violence
Little safe haven for sexually assaulted LGBTQ victims
Only option for poor women in India; sell their bodies
Online ad leads to rape, drugging charges (Calgary)
Don’t think of her as ‘just another dead DTES hooker’ (Vancouver)
Cabbie charged with sex assault fights to regain licence (Ottawa)
Charges laid in violent sexual assault
Online personals ad respondent drugged, raped: RCMP
19-year-old who sexually assaulted four-year-old admits to ‘urges’
Kelowna Man Charged with Sexual Assault of a child
Doctor accused of assaulting teen boy disappears (Winnipeg)
HIV man with 11 aggravated sexual assault charges reserves plea (Red Deer)
Canada warn citizens travelling to India around Independence Day
Pitino admits to enounter, payment
Young girl rescued from alleged pornographer
Tips coming in regarding Nanaimo sex assault
Fear is wrong response to attacks on women
Saskatoon policework leads to child porn arrest in Kelowna
Saskatchewan Child Porn Investigation Leads to BC Arrest
Australian rugby player Greg Inglis charged with assaulting girlfriend
Brother fulfills promise with sexual abuse class action suit (Halifax)
Carleton defence in sex-assault c ase stirs outrage
Carleton Students Urge University to Stop Blaming Victim
Kelowna man alleged to be one of BC’s most prolific child porn distributors
University was right to fire instructor
Diocese to pay $13 million to abuse victims
Church makes $13-million sex abuse settlement
NS diocese reaches $13-million settlement in abuse case
Carleton lawsuit raises issues of responsibility
Police seek witnesses to English Bay sexual assault
VPD asking couple who stopped sex assault to come forward
Possible witness to Guelph sex assault
Convicted priest to be sentenced November 9th
Boy, 14, charged with 2 Vancouver-area sex assaults
BC man who sexually assaulted hitchhiker declared dangerous offender
August 7, 2009
This Week In the News (August 7, 2009)
RCMP seek sexual assault suspect for attack at the Craven Country Jamboree
Surrey 14-year-old facing sexual assault charges
Vet charged in sexual assaults
Man faces numerous charges for sexual assault
Police failed to warn women about sex assaults: professor
Yukon Mounties to stand trial for sexual assault
Montreal men arrested for sexual assault, indecent exposure
Settlement reached in lawsuit against N.S. diocese
2 sexual assaults may be linked: police
Police Look for Suspect in Sexual Assault
HIV-positive man charged with sexual assault
HIV-positive man charged in sex assault on child
Man charged in pair of sexual assaults
Sexual assault in Nanaimo similar to earlier case: RCMP
Calgary police seek public help after violent sexual assault
Men charged with Banff sex assaults
Vancouver police seek sexual assault witness
Three suspects sought in alleged sexual assault of woman
Farm worker charged with sex assault
‘Betrayed and violated’: Red Deer single mom in shock after cops say ex-lover was HIV positive
Former sex assault convict arrested in Calgary after peeping
High-risk offender released in Calgary, police warn
B.C. man who sexually assaulted hitchhiker declared dangerous offender
New sex charges laid against N.B. man
‘Predator’ taxi driver deserves jail term, Crown says
August 6, 2009
The socialization of men and women
Harriet Jacobs at Fugitivus recently posted something pretty amazing. (Please note there is a picture of someone extending their middle fingers and the post also contains some strong language. The link may not be safe for work.) She writes about how the socialization of women contributes to their responses when experiencing violence. She also writes about the way we socialize men:
If men have been raised to behave aggressively, to discount what women and weaker men want and feel and say, to obtain power and social standing through force, to deny emotions exist, to feel that women are fundamentally a different species, to set a boundary and keep it NO MATTER WHAT, to make a decision and stick to it NO MATTER WHAT, to feel entitled to sex, to feel they will be ostracized and possibly physically attacked if they don’t acquire sex with women, to feel under threat of harassment and attack if they don’t constantly maintain a hyper-masculine exterior, to prove their manhood through dangerous and degrading physical activities…
if you have seen men behave in this way, and encouraged it, and thought it was normal, so normal you didn’t even see it…
then you never have the right to say “He couldn’t possibly have done that” when you hear that your brother raped somebody.
Pretty fantastic. Check it out.
August 4, 2009
The Last Two Weeks in the News
Apologies for no post over the past 2 weeks. Here is a selection sexual assaulted-related news articles over the past two weeks:
Man targeting women in Mill Woods (Edmonton)
Montreal police nab man suspected of 20 sexual assaults
Three suspects sought in alleged sexual assault of woman (Toronto)
HIV-positive Alberta man charged with sexual assault.
HIV-positive man faces sex assault charges
Vancouver Police warn public of sexual predator
Hamilton man charged in sex assaults after boys answer online ad …
Admired NL priest found dead after sexual assault charges laid
Man charged with sexual assault of boy
Ex-jailer assaulted youth, rights panel told
High-risk offender released (Calgary)
High risk sex offender will remain in jail (Calgary)
Brave women who endured incest to speak out against cop killer
Vancouver police seek sexual assault witness
Unsolved sexual assault leaves Banff on edge
Bogus ‘minister’ faces sexual assault charge (Toronto)
Two arrested for sexually assaulting teens in Banff
Late warning a mistake: RCMP (Banff)
Wrong suspect arrested in Banff sexual assault
Calgary police investigate sexual assault
Man, 19, arrested in sexual assault of woman (Kitchener, ON)
Girl, 8, disowned by family after sexual assault (Arizona)
Liberian leaders in US worried about stereotypes following alleged …
Boy, 14, indicted in rape of 8-year-old girl in Phoenix
Daycare worker charged with sexual assault (Burlington, ON)
Andrea McNulty Accusing QB Ben Roethlisberger of Sexual Assault
Teammates say Roethlisberger apology not necessary
Pakistan moves to outlaw domestic violence
Victims of sex assault don’t get to ‘move on’
Calgary men arrested for sex with teens
Too early to link sex assault of 13-year-old to previous incidents …
Teacher Pleads Guilty to Having Sex With Student
Montreal sex offender charged again
13-year-old Vancouver girl ordered off bus, sexually assaulted
Sex attack in 2nd heist (Winnipeg)
Queer survivor’s program wraps (Ottawa)
Criminologist says predator likely to strike again
Police warn of released Soda Creek sex offender (Williams Lake, BC)
Man jailed for 1990s sex assaults (Moncton)
Regina man facing sexual exploitation and sexual assault charges …
GBHS nurse charged in sex assault case (Owen Sound)
Big Ben’s accuser predicted to fail (Winnipeg)
Sex crime victim knew assailant (London, ON)
Toronto cops not charged with sex assault after strip search
Suspect in sexual assault of 6-year-old girl could have struck … (Vancouver)
Sex offender living in Edmonton
‘Father figure’ faces multiple teen sex raps
Bike-riding sexual molestor on the loose
Father of accused murderer faces child pornography charges
Alberta man accused of posing as policeman in teen abduction goes to trial
Sex offender released; former partner issues warning (Kamloops)
Man targeting women working alone: Winnipeg police
Long-term offender status ordered for child predator
Canadian faces Thai sex charges in US